It was drizzling while i make my way to work. Over the last 24 hours, i heard another break up. Another long dating couple saying goodbye. I seriously wonder why must a relationship eventually end up this way. A close friend of mine who has been dating for the last 5 years decide to close shop. It was a painful decision.
Lack of emotional support? I find it hard to believe. Someone whom u have been in love for so long finds u a chore cos u could not provide the relevant support. The poor guy has been giving in, even to the extent of giving up friends to meet demands yet condemned his stupidity on emotional needs. Strange strange strange. This was wat i found from a blogger who face a similar situation. Anyway, i dun know him.
thats why. when baby flared up, i rather remain silent. to prevent thing from getting worse. but somehow... things always get worse. i don't know. maybe i am really stupid in handling relationship. anyway all is the past liao.
Seems same fate like my friend. I am not trying to defend guys but i do agree some guys fail to react in situation like this. Afterall, they din want it. They just somehow became a "mu tou" and remain silent. Not everyone behaves like ken, who could speak off your mind. I comforted my friend and check if he is really serious to give up the relationship. It takes great courage to say goodbye esp when the guy is deeply in love with the girl previously.
Wanted to lend support to my dear friend, but need to work today. Haiz.... I dun even have the time to tok to him in details last nite. I was too tired and fell on bed instantaneously. I wish he will pull himself together and emerge stronger. Take care friend!!!
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Better to find out now then having to find out after marriage. It's unhealthy in a relationship for one partner to consistently give in to the other. Sooner or later, what simmer underneath will explode.
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