Romance?

Was being "lectured" by a friend regarding relationship. Ha... And to me, this person is the least qualified to discuss relationship with me. Though i do not condemn him/her over their failed relationship, their ideology of relationship is different from mine, and that's probably why they ended eventually.

Wat is deemed as a relationship?

"Buy Issey Miyaki for me?"
"I love to dine in a restaurant only"
"Call me every now and then ie everything 30 mins"
"Buy a car if you love me"
"I dun like your friend, if you ever ask me out with them, i will give you a black face"

So is this a relationship? or so called ROMANCE? Wow. That's cool! ha.. I was thinking over the past few hours abt wat a relationship is. If this is so called a relationship or romance, i would have failed undoubtly. Cant even get C6. The more i think, the more i felt ridiculous.

To me, a relationship is a kind of feeling towards someone. You know she/he is there for you, you know how she/he appreciates you, you know the care she/he has for you. NOT the MATERIAL kind of romance. It is always the tots that count. So wat if you can fulfill all the material request, it will eventually collapse one day. And it did!

So far, i have enjoyed the company of my dearie. I have always encouraged her to live life to the fullest. Do wat you like when you are young and still able to. One day, when one grows old, i would not want to hear things like i would have done this when i was younger. Do it now. Life is not abt you and me. It is abt everything.

It is abt how comfortable and fun you have with each other. Like wat dearie said, she enjoyed the way we are now, so am i. As for the lecturer, i guess he/she should take a step back to reflect upon himself/herself. Well, i wont say i am an expert in this area, but at least i know what i am doing. ha...