Another Shot Gun Marriage

Ridiculous! Dun get me wrong. I am not against couple who get pregnant before marriage. This is provided the couple has a long and stable relationship as well as having good financial stability. I was horrified when i learned that a friend of mine made her gf pregnant at the age of 24. They will be getting married over this wkend.

This guy has just finished his NS and work as a sales promoter or something for a start. He knew his gf for only a short period of time, probably 5 mths or less. A father to be in 7 months time. I cant believe it. The whole saga is just too absurb. Ok, maybe some of you may think is ok, i cant accept it. To quote what jun said, it is just too unhealthy and fast.

I almost fell off my chair when i learn abt it. Well, my question is does he know wat contraception is all about. If u dunno at the age of 24, go bang yourself on the wall. Dun give me tat stupid reason cos oh i want to feel shiok. Wat?! For that short excitement, u created a life.

Having sex is easy, but to raise a kid is not. Well, probably he din think of that when he's on bed. This is just RIDICULOUS! If he is only 17 or 18, i dun blame them. If he is not tertiary educated, i also excuse them. But no lor. Maybe i am creating a big fuss. They are fine having children at this age.

However, my immediate concern is, how to raise the kid. You wont want ur kid to grow up in a unhealthy environment. Next concern, do you have the capability to raise one? I doubt he has, cos he has just completed his national service, starting on his career. He is not a regular lor. So it will be the parents or rather the grandparents who will raise the kid.

Hello, Excuse me! Your kid and you want ur parents to raise for you. U know how to have sex but dunno how to take care of them? The more i think, the more i feel disgusted. So it boils down to one issue, LUST! Again dun get me wrong. I am not saying having sex is wrong. NOTHING WRONG n it is PERFECTLY FINE.

But to have sex without even thinking wat is going to happen next is way off track. I know many pple dun think abt it once they are engaged in their sexual behaviour. That explains why we see many teens pregnancy and abandon babies. Ken was equally surprised when he learned abt it. I think he must have fell off his bed. ha...

If ever a gay or lesbian is reading this, they must be jeering at them. I have mentioned before, that also explain why more pple prefer to stay in a homo relationship. They will never face this kind of situation. ha... I am sure they will laugh their heads off, calling us "Goon Doo" straight couples. Well, i guess this is life of the Y generation.