Monday, November 29, 2010

Educators Problem

I wonder if there is something wrong with the educators these days. First the principal, then Mas Selamat niece, next MOE scholar. Now another new case, a 25 year old teacher caught having sex with underage girl. Goodness... Is there something wrong with our system or pple these days are desperately in need of love?

"A TEACHER was charged on Monday 29 Nov with two counts of having sex with a 15-year-old student.

The 25-year-old, who cannot be named to protect the identity of the girl, allegedly had sex with the teen with her consent at a flat in the north of Singapore on May 20 and June this year.

He has been suspended from teaching."


级任老师做家访,竟变成搞未成年女生上床?

一名中学级任老师,涉嫌上15岁女生的家,跟她发生性关系,今天被控2项与未成年少女发生关系的罪状。

被告25岁,短发、戴黑框眼镜,个子瘦削。他今早穿白色长袖衣及灰色长裤出庭面控。


Another case of self destruction. What in the world is he thinking? A minute of lust that eventually tainted his future. Probably he felt shiok at that time, he was already floating in the sky, who cares right? hahaha... Maybe is really 真心相爱?还是爱她的下面?Who knows? Really so horny meh...

There are times pple wonder how could these happen to our educators here. Though I have stress a couple of time, it is due to the hidden character of the person, one still find it hard to believe things will turn this way. Its kinda scary to see these creepy pple ard.

Imagine if your kid is to be educated by such pple, how would you feel?? That comes back to the issue that i always argue, external environment shape the character of the person. 华语有句成语说,不攻自破,不言而喻。However, though I am not fully right, I do not believe I am wrong neither.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Mutated Love

Another depriving love? However, I would prefer to call it Mutated Love. One civil servant took 40 years to discover he lack of family love? Today, another 60 year old, who is old enough to be a grandpa chose mutated love.

AN INVESTIGATING panel has found that the former principal of Anglo-Chinese School (Independent), Dr Ong Teck Chin, had behaved inappropriately towards a male teacher.

'Dr Ong Teck Chin has conducted himself in an inappropriate manner and his conduct has fallen short of the standards expected of a principal,' said a joint statement by the ACS Board of Governors and the ACS(I) Board of Management on Monday.

It added that 'Dr Ong deeply regrets his actions and has apologised'


An educator who have been in this line for so long did something which is unacceptable. Once again, I dun believe he deprive of love since young. He came fro a normal and decent family. So why did it happen? No one taught him? His daddy and mummy did not love him? What took him so long to realise his character? Is this another case of hidden identity or inborn character that i always believe in?

Strange enough. I thought only teenagers will have such crisis but I am wrong. I wonder how his wife and kids will think. Do they feel ashame of their father or husband behaviour? Its kinda scary to know pple of these kind exist. I think like what Jun said, choose the right path and stay on the safe side. To really change one inborn characters really take years and effort.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Elite Scholar turn Monster

Another case of depriving love? A MOE scholar who studied in University of York in the UK was caught for making hardcore child pornography. Is he sicko or what? I do not believe he lack of family love or was poorly discipline. Someone who can excel in studies, "suppose" to stick with good students end up being a psycho.

This guy that was featured in the news recently was from Hwa Chong Junior College and Chinese High School.Indeed, elite schools do have black sheep. However, I am more curious about what happen to this particular guy. Did something serious happen or was it deep down in him that he was hiding his real character? Strange enough.

Well, not only him, there were also other top scholars and top civil servant that had other criminal problems. For one, the infamous SLA cheater. He sifoned large sum of money without getting caught. It was only reported recently and the whole saga became public.

Another lack of love incident? He is earning sufficient enough. He has a family that he can rely on. Did his family fail to give him enough love? At the age of almost 40, he deprives love and decides to seek excitement from siphoning state funds? So, it took him 40 years to realise he lack of love. Goodness. So greed had taken over him. I pity his wife, his kids and his parents. How are they going to face pple? I do not believe he was not taught. After all he is part of the elites in SG.

Since the elites are already behaving in such manner, the recent parang cases and slashing incidents do not come as a surprise. What on earth is happening? On one hand, we blame family for lacking of warmth, but on the other hand, these are educated pple. Well done Singaporeans.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Provocative Acts

It has been more than a week since 19 year old Republic student was slashed at Downtown East. Yesterday, another 4 teenagers were arrested for possessing choppers. Goodness! The police have stepped up efforts to fight street gang and violence, these youth are not concern at all. They brought 2 choppers to downtown east and were arrested in the chalet.

What's wrong with our youth today? Media have been running news on street violence! They simply ignore and live in their own world. So I am right, youth these days are indeed non chalent. They only live in their world. The most horrifying thing is out of the 4 arrested, 2 are teenage girls. One chopper was found in a lady's bag.

Are teenagers really devil while kids are angels? Till today, when i see little kids, i am still weary of them. How could one little cute cute kid turn into a member of street gang? Worst still, girls are joining the fun. Today's gang is no longer guys only. Or is it true that these girls are just gf of those guys? I am not too sure.

If we are to conclude that, so its true that, "Guys join Sociey, Girls needs Man". I think most parents would be worried if you base on this. Haiz, I guess more work needs to be done. Yester Years problem did not disappear, they are still looming. I can only wish all the best to the kids.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Wake up Call

The recent brutal cases involving gang fight is a wake up call for everyone. First murder at Downtown East, then Rampage at Bukit Panjang. There are many questions left unanswered.

What are the authorities doing to curb the escalation of gang violence? Have our home team been too complacent over the last decade or overly involved with countering terrorism? Gang violence have fallen since late 70s till 80s. Did these violence rose recently or it has already been there but yet to surface?

What are our teenager doing? Time have changed and there are a couple of few who still believe gangs will treat them best. Are they influence by media or internet or lack of love from family? I seriously think our teenagers are more non chalent now but hey, I think I am still wrong. Some still love gangs.

What about our parents? Are they doing enough or are they overly obesessive with pursing their dreams? Era have changed, mindsets have change, even the way kids are bought up have changed. Some parents love to refer to the old days but its hard to apply now. Kids are influence by many external factors, thus it is necessary to keep close eye of them. Some may argue, giving them sufficient love should curb the problem. I do agree. Well, there are times it may still be hard to control.

Check this out. Something I got from STOMP.

"Children present, but couple don't care as they kiss passionately on Sentosa monorail"


Well well, nice pix and full of love from these young kids.

Monday, November 08, 2010

Money+Handsome+Talented=?



I came across this funny diagram that I thought I should share. What do you guys think? hahahahha.... Good representation?

Sunday, November 07, 2010

Poor kids

I pity my little nephew. I saw some disturbing photos and my poor nephew thinks of his mum. I will try my best to take care of him. I seriously feel he is a disowned child. Thankfully, he still have his grandma and uncles to love them. I dun understand wats wrong with gers these days. Are man more impt than their kids?

The recent downtown east murder is a classic example. The guys were caught in a SAF club tat was on loan by one of the "murderer" gf. Gosh, I bet the father of the ger will be very shock to learn that her daughter's bf is one of those involved in the case. How would the father believe it?

What's wrong nowsaday? The parents came from normal family. I bet the father din known abt the murder case. Why did the daughter choose to go steady with some wierd guys? I feel unjustified. I dun believe they are not taught properly. I guess its the character that they felt its impt to stay on close term with bf than family. Poor ger n also the father. I bet the father felt betray by his own daughter. If he knows it was some ah beng, do you think he will want to rent out that chalet?

Its kinda of scary. When I see my young nephew, i pity him. His mum was saying, I fear if i gave him keys, he might bring gers to my place. I said, "u r experienced, u sure u r ok?" hahaha... She remained silence throughout the whole conversation. Are guys more impt than kids? When I think of my little nephews, i felr so sorry for them. I promised I will try to take good care of them. I love them. They r just like my own sons.

Friday, November 05, 2010

Halloween

Back home from Taiwan safe and sound. However, it wasnt so much of a happy occasion for Qantas QF 32 flight passengers. Malfunction engine forced the pilot to make an emergency u turn to land in Changi. It kept us busy throughout the day. Most international media were there since its the first time A380 got into distress.

Some tot it was a crash initially but thankfully everyone was safe. The passengers onboard at that moment were probably too worried to think what had happen. The loud bang is indeed scary. It was till 4-5 hours later when they were let out of the passenger terminal. It was a relieve for most of them.

I was reading this article that caught my eye again.

万圣节夜晚遇上魔鬼面具男,已婚少妇经不起诱惑,与对方发生一夜情,如今担心染性病万圣节夜晚遇上魔鬼面具男,已婚少妇经不起诱惑,与对方发生一夜情,如今担心染性病

已婚妇在万圣节晚上和朋友到夜店喝酒时,有一名戴着魔鬼面具的男人上前向她搭讪,说他没戴面具的样子挺帅,而她稍微有一些醉意,也开始和对方谈话。
她表示,对方后来再回去找她,卸下面具的他,果然相当帅,又长得高大,吸引了她。

“我当时酒喝多了,觉得兴奋,需要也跟着来了,我们就到酒店做了那回事。”
“我是一个有夫之妇,得为我的丈夫,我的家庭负责,这次的不小心,可能是一生的内疚。”

So powerful. I guess most guys in this situation would have been happy. hahaha, 自动送上门。Who doesnt want? However, I pity the wife’s husband and parents. How would they think if they found out the truth?

A wife who sleeps around? A daughter that find excitement with other guys? The woman herself too. She is daring enough to sleep ard without protection. If she is to get infected, then what is going to happen?

According to reports, it is not the first time she is doing this. I think she simply enjoys the fun with the unknown. Poor girl. Should I pity her? For her parents, when kids are young, they treat them princesses. Once grow up, worried abt her marriage and future. Now one more thing to worry, will their kids do silly things even when they get married? Poor thing.

On a lighter note, it was 6th anniversary for me at Double O halloween party. It was not that bad with many dressed up for the occasion. They transformed the place into old school, with water bottles filled drinks. It was called “双零中学” meaning Dbl O secondary school. Waiters were wearing uniform while security and managers became Discipline Master and Principals.

It was kinda cute theme. So many changes over at Dbl O. From the atas Unity Street to low class 222 Queen Street. How can one forget the good old times? My first dbl o trip was a Halloween in Oct 2004, which I think was recorded in this blog as well. Cool!