Sometime, it is difficult to avoid misunderstanding or even prevent it. Afterall, we are humans. We make mistakes and overlook certain issues. Misunderstandings can lead to unncessary anxiety, disappointment, anger, fear and etc. Be it between a friend or ur partner. I do agree that reality do make you feel frustrated as there is always the element of uncertainty. No one can predict what is going to happen tomorrow. Last minute change may have ripple effect and cause many problems.
Anyway, i had some misunderstanding yesterday but was eventually resolved. It was a good lesson that cannot be taught in class. To maintain a relationship, there must be consistency and transparency. If not, the game will end within a couple of months or even days. I always believe in this. That is why i dun like to hide anything. Whatever, i know, i will let her or my friends know. Although the incident is over, i am glad to know something, i treasure my love one very much. She is impt to me and i value whatever she had to say. Yeah!
Since the saga is over, life still have to move on. Tomorrow is a working day for me. Fortunately, i managed to convince my senior to grant me an afternoon shift. Ha. i have been waking up at 4 plus every monday morning. It was quite tiring and stress. hee..
Went to my niece 1 year old birthday today. Wow, her first birth cake was so beautiful. i bet her parents must have spent on the cake. Very fortunate girl to born in this era where singapore is so prosperous. ha... There were 11 kids running ard the house which i nearly fainted. My nephew was one of them. I think kids get aquainted with each other very quickly. A buffet was catered for everyone of us. Really lar... nowsaday children are really so good. Parents are more filial to their kids than the other way round. hopefully when they grow up, they will learn to treasure their parents like the way their parents treat them.
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Always believe that misundersanding can be a good way to strengthen relationship, though too much of which may destroy it. Guess that the 'her' is also happy and glad that thru this misunderstanding, the guy has valued her and her feelings more. Lastly hope their relationship will last forever :)
Hi, it's good to know that you are still handling difficult situations with grace and expertise. Remember, nothing should stand in your way to what you truely cherish.
Btw, I'm on for wed. And do you want me to link you in my blog?
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