How true is this statement? Well, i have been thinking after jun and i took a review of what happened over the year. It is definitely a positive form of communicating as couple like us seldom do this form of review. One too lazy, two choose to ignore, three find it troublesome. Hmm. Sounds bad if things snowballed and got worse. I think pple should learn from us in this sense. ha... oops... But then again, individuals are different. We cannot apply the same thing to different group. Settle for a comfortable zone then.
I got to agree that expectation and surprises are not unhealthy. However, overly anticipation will eventually lead u to devastation and anxiety. The more u anticipate, the more we are putting ourselves in a difficult position. Now, take a step back and think. Is that expectation a form of self-fulfilling prophersy or basic necessity? Next, surprises are neither bad. But if someone choose to give surprise for the sake of surprise, will that improve? I agree that it will spice up ur life but on the flip side, it may disappoint u. Between someone who seldom give surprises but 安 安 分 分, and someone who can create fun but always end up more trouble, i guess the answer is obvious.
Back to the story, women or men have different characteristics. The latter tend to be realistic while the former tend to be emotional. We are born in that way. I cannot say that is bad, afterall, if everything is the same, what is the difference between both sexes? What happen in the Quake have also triggered off some thoughts in me. Pple are suffering from the aftermath, lost of loves ones, homes, money. We are lucky enough to stay in a place free of catastrophic stuff. Death figures have soared beyond 55000 this morning. We are fortunate to be with our loves one. I learn to cherish every moment in my life. Life is vulnerable.
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