Honesty vs Reality

I was reading one of the blogger's story when i felt so strong to react.

Is it wrong to be honest when reality hurts?

If u ask me, i really dunno. Reality hurts and that is why there are things that it is better to remain status quo then finding out the truth. Cos the truth will not lead u to anywhere.

"i don't hide sercerts from my loved one, esp to baby. yes, i admit that i slept with other before. i know i am dirty. how i wish i can erased all the past? even how much i wanted to. i can't. i don't deny in the first place when i am dating her. i decided to come clean when i am attached. who the hell will be that honest? someone please tell me. "

This poor fellow got himself entangled when her gf ask him this qns. He is really courageous to tell the truth. But his gf could not accept. His friend commented that only 2 out of 10 guys tell the truth and he is one of them. If the girl really loves him, well she should accept wat he is. Tat is true.

But sometime things turn out otherwise. When the girl starts asking funny qns, i guess she feels insecure. The problem goes to the root. Why in the first place did he sleep ard? U cannot blame the girl if she is really tat pure and expect u to be one too. Human r selfish, they can do it but his/her partner can't. Probably the girl need sometime to cool down.

So, it is wrong to be honest? I will say 99% of the time it is good to be honest. And dun ask if u know that reality will hurt. I dun like asking pple abt their past. U will procrastinate when u know the truth. Anyway, wat happened in the past is history. There is nothing much u can do. I only look forward to future. It is more impt for a couple to think of their future then indulging themselves in the past. No point if it turns out to be like this guy.