Fling Relationship

Inspired by dearie blog, i have decided to pen down some thoughts abt the subject of fling. What is define as fling? According to Oxford Dictionary, it means a spell of indulgence in pleasure. Fair enough. However, to many, it may have different sets of meanings.

Dearie bro define fling as someone like a bf or gf but only comes together when both have the time. No commitment involved. Others may say there are no real love involved in a fling relationship. Perhaps put it this way, a fling is just someone to satisfy one sexual or physcological need in the absence of real love.

I would think oxford dictionary gave a good definition. It is purely an indulgence of pleasure. That also means when you are happy, you would commit yourself in some form of indulgence act. As for wat kind of act, it could be the company, fun, sexual needs etc. Well, there are many ways to interpret the act. The bottomline, to make yourself happy.

I personally feel there is no responsiblity or dearie call it commitment involved during a fling relationship. Pple meet up, do something then the next time they become strangers. ha... Unlike a usual relationship, a couple care for their partner's need and wellbeing. I believe in a fling relationship, pple dun really care abt that. hahaha...

I must say i have friends who also have fling relationship. My question- is this a trend or fad? Or have i lost touch with the outside world, cos i am living in the world of my own? hahaha.... After hearing and seeing for myself many of these so call fling relationship, i really appreciate the importance of serious relationship. I really treasure the one i have. Do you?