I Wonder Why

There are many occasions that i wonder why some pple must behave differently when they are in a relationship. Although there is nothing wrong with being together with their bf/gf all the time, i somehow do not agree when pple start to neglect their personal friends. True enough, bf/gf may turn husband or wife and supposedly, it should be perpetual.

However, personal friends are gone forever when a new relationship begins. Sad to say, friends that have gone thru thick and thin with you over a decade vanish. The world revolves only him and her, but nothing else. All other things become insignificant. There are pple who are really hard hearted. I dun think i am one of those.

To me, i prefer to strike a balance. No matter what, time should be given to both sides. An understanding gf/bf or personal friends will appreciate. Well, i dun think many can afford to do it. Priorities are probably different. This reminded me of a friend. During a relationship, this person is like gone forever. To invite him out is like asking a god to look for you.

Conversely, when the relationship is gone, this person start to look at his/her old friends. So are we being make use? I dunno. I just find it funny. I can only say i am very soft hearted. I only remember the good things that good friends did to me. I am happy to see a changed person, or perhaps someone who have revert into his old self. Yeah! That's something that i love to see!