Monday, October 15, 2007

Pretendious

I am so crazy over "The Drive in Life". I almost cried when i saw Chermaine left Raymond out of family revenge. Ok. Typical Hongkie serial. I cant believe one would forgo their relationship for a revenge. The thing is when both started the relationship, Chermaine din know it was Raymond's family who killed her mum indirectly. Are human being really tat hard hearted or they are just purely pretendious?

Recently, many things have been going on ard me. I realise many pple are just trying to hide behind their mask. A righteous person one day turn evil tempting others to join in his league. I am not sure if the person turn evil or probably all these while he/she has been evil and is just tat i have never realise it. Pretty digusted to learn abt the fact. If given the choice, I would choose not to know the truth.

On the other hand, some who claimed that they can accept all kind of things are not reflecting their truth self either. Pretendious? A friend said we are always wearing all kind of mask everyday to shield our actual self. The mask is a form of self protection. Is that true? I really dunno. One can proclaim loudly he/she is open to opinion, in fact, he/she is not. Human beings tend to act differently. Chinese proverb says "Kou Bu Dui Xin".

Who can u believe these days? Like Ngai Tin Hang in "The Drive of Life" says, you can only believe in yourself. Never trust anyone cos only u make the decision for your life. Someone who wants to make it big, needs to have plenty of self confidence and dare to make decision in life. Unlike those who are pretendious, where their tots do not match their actions. Oh man. I really take the serial to heart liao. hahahha

Shall continue the show now....

1 comment:

junjun said...

think sometimes you cant avoid to be pretendious, esp during work, to get certain tasks done... how about those working in sales or customer service line? although they may feel bad on a certain day, they still have to smile at customers. Do you call that pretendious or professional?

then for friends, also the same... sometimes you may in a very bad mood, but when you see your friends, i think it is still better to put on a smile so as not to spoil everybody mood... Do you call that pretendious also?

I think sometimes being pretendious is not all that bad after all.