Extreme Tots

Sometimes i do feel insecure due to extreme tots. I guess this is part and parcel of life too. That would also explain why i think a lot. I would dare to say not many guys go into deep tots like me. After going thru difficult moments, there is a tendency tat you feel insecure. As a result, one tends to get stubborn or even resistant to changes. I might be a victim too but i also know that occur in extreme cases only. Most of the time, we flow with the mainstream.

What constitutes to the behaviour of a person? Well, i do agree its how a child is being brought up from young. As long as you impart the correct knowledge, the right upbringing, the child will be a filial and abiding kid. That is for most cases. If every other child becomes devil, how would the world become? hahha.. Tats the norm.

In my personal view, i still think its character that shape a person behaviour. No matter how hard a parent try to teach his child, nothing seems to get in. Some children are simply rebellious by nature. Some even worse, angel when young, devil at teens. I still cannot understand why someone can forgo their family for a man or woman? Or even breaking up someone family?? I dun believe their parents would have educated or brought them up tat way.

What abt the many gays and lesbian we see in our daily lives? According to reports and even wat our politicians say, most are born with it. There is no way you change the person but to accept them as what they are. As parents, they would have brought up their child in a way that the child grows up, married and have their own children. Thats the norm. They wouldnt want to see same sex marriage. However, these pple cant fit into the norm but move against nature. Tat also conclude one point, character.

No doubt these are extreme cases, it does left one pondering over such issues. Of course, if given a choice, no one wants to see or even get connected to these extreme cases. Should i call myself lucky? However, i tell myself not to harbour such extreme tots as eventually it wont do me good either. It will add on to the stress that i have to face everyday in life. Work has already given me significant pressure. Tat is also why i need to find a balance. hahhaha...

YAY! Its saturday. I heard Retro Mania presents Call me tonight! OMG! Sad to say, i am going to be late cos i have to work. :( A colleague was asking abt my upcoming trip yesterday. Boy, i was damn excited as i spoke to her abt the trip. Its time to leave this stressful place in 2 months time. It would be good if i can find a cottage n live there for several weeks. That is my dream, remember? Time for fresh air. Nevermind, i shall look for a cheapo form of relaxation tonite!