True Love

Do you know wat is the meaning of true love? True love is not abt meeting every other day or keep buying things for the other party or even dear this dear that. I think true love is to be forgiving, inclusive and forward looking. A recent friend of mine got married and i was really touched by his marriage. I called it an extraordinary Marriage.

We were long time friends and it was obvious he was a gay. He did reveal abt his sexual preference those days and talked abt how much craving he had for guys. He admitted he tried to control but i guess lust have put everything aside. He has been an aj for as long as 5 years. He even confessed to his parents abt his sexual orientation. They were totally devastated. Coming from a parent, i guess no parents will find it easy to accept such behaviour.

Till one day when i met him, I realised he has a gf. I was in disbelief. I mean someone who is so Aj in his life had turned straight. It is definitely not easy. However, i am still happy. After all it takes great courage and perserverance to change. There could be 3 reasons, one religion, two family pressure, three the woman. I mean it is not easy for a woman to accept her bf who used to be a gay. Woman, would you be able to accept tat?

Woman always talk abt security and the need for love n to meet as often to show the importance of love. There is nothing wrong abt that, but are you 伟大 and willing to accept guys of this nature. I would say 98% will shun away. Who would want tat to happen to themselves? However, my friend's gf, no in fact wife din. She accepted who he is and even stood by his side all this while. To a guy, if a ger who is so good and willing to accept who you are, there is no doubt that the person is really true to you. I believe he must be touched by his wife and eventually got together.

When i saw their wedding photo, i feel serene for a moment. He finally chose the mainstream. His parents must be very happy. He is also happy to have chosen a wonderful bride. My heartfelt congrats to the couple. I have never feel so much for a married couple. I have been thinking lately a lot abt them. 你们的决定，让我对爱有了重新的定义。恭喜两位！