Monday, September 01, 2008

Angels or Devils?

Judging at the number of entries i wrote, it has dwindled severly since last month. OMG! I guess i have been too busy at work and also meeting up some friends. It was Javier's month old celebration yesterday. Many relatives came and so did dearie. Javier is such a cutie except when he cries. hahahha... He wore a new sets of clothes plus a little cap lor. So cute!

I read a blog of a friend. Erm.. more of dearie's friend. She had an analogy abt kids. She babies are god's gifts to us, whether or not there are new policies, we should cherish all these little ones who came to bring joy to us really..its a gift. Hmmm... I beg to differ. To only a certain extend, she is right. I agree its a gift from heaven if wifey gets pregnant. However, whether it is a joy or not, it depends on the long run.

I have reiterated a couple of times, kids are angels when young. Once older, they can become DEVILS. They really haunt you till you break down. Of course not all will turn devils. I still believe in their character and the company they choose to mix with when they grow up. If somehow, it turn the other way, it is going to be disasterous. By that time, i guess its not joy but more of sorrow and disappointment.

Let me share with some little observations. I was on train to gym a couple of days ago. There, i notice this young girl who is like 14-15 years old. She is with her little boyfriend. Both of them are very young and i would say cuties too. The guy is cool, he was nonchalent throughout the journey. The girl was teasing him all the way with her hands touching his body and kissing his cheeks and ears. Now, my question is, if the girl is your daughter, how are you going to feel?

Are girls these days so horny? Or are girls these days deprive of sex? I mean the way she does will definitely turned the guy on unless he is a gay. Then the guy decide to have sex with the girl, in the end, the girl gets pregnant and then blame the guy. Hmmm... Tats not all. The entire family will be in shame. Secondly, can they afford to raise a kid? So is it true that their parents want things to turn this way? Definitely no. Are they bringing joy to their parents? No too.

Its a personal observation. Of course, there are still plenty of young n nice girls who know how to behave. I would call it a blessing if girls these days are really angels. If any teenage girls are reading these, please, spare a tot for your parents. They love you like the way u love ur little boyfriend. Dun hurt them.....

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