14 Years Old

This is the golden age for many young teens. I have a phobia with the age of this group. Cos it is the time when they start to turn rebellious, forget about wat they were taught in school, forget abt their parents belief and take things into their own hand. I would call it the treshold level. Once a teen go pass this level, it will determine if he or she is good or bad. Really. I have numerous experience on this.

My mum told me a story of a teenage girl that I used to play with her when she was a little kid. Well, I am older than her by 16 years old. When she was a baby, she used to come to my place. A well manner ger. Taken care by my auntie. Whenever she sees me, she will call me kor kor. Even when she was a primary school kid, she is still obedient and very well manner. Her father is a Japanese. Somehow, she is a decent and quiet ger. Very good upbringing.

Things change when she moved on to secondary school. Yep, the golden age. She started dating guys. Ha... That is when issues start to grow out of hand. I was shocked when i learned that she even had a tatoo now!!! Shocking! How would a decent ger like her change so much? Influence from Bf? Influence from friends? My belief remains.

Environment changes and nobody knows what is going to happen. Would you expect a decent sweet ger to turn devil and seductive? She has good upbringing but why did that happen? Her father dotes her a lot . However, she was caned badly for the first time when her dad realise her daughter become so notti. Japanese parents dun usually believe in violence. Her mum is a Singaporean. It is kinda of surprise for me again. hahahha.. I cant believe her dad actually cane her. Never in his life he had ever beat his kid. I think he must be terribly upset.

So my question still remains unanswered. hahhaa.. A kid who is young and well behave doesnt equate to the same when they grow older. Environment forces a person to change and to a certain extend, to be good or bad. However, there is a grey line, what is determine as good or wat is determine as bad? When you feel good, it does not mean others will feel the same. It is not an easy job. hahahha... Nonetheless, kids of these days are scary. Cute and sweet daughter or son may turn nasty on you. eeeeeeeeeeek... one word. "PRETENDIOUS" hahahahha