Ever Changing World

Its has been a good 1 month since I last blogged. Was busy with Apec summit here as I was coordinating and doing lots of stuff. I have lots of issues to blog about but when I got home, I felt tired and forget abt it. hahaha.. You can call it lazy but please bear with me. hahaha.. I really wish i could blog more like what i used to in the past. It will be a one week break for me. Hopefully, i will have some time to bitch.

While working today, I was posted a question by jun about getting married. To many who are around my age, you get to hear this kind of question very often. hahaha.. My reply is always the same. Anyone who can fork out at least 50k for me, i will register straight away. Whenever i gave that comment, everyone just kept quiet. May i know why? Or am i too straight to the point?

It is good to get married with someone you love. However, marriage is not about you and me. It is always a big affair involving a large number of pple. What i am concern is whether will i be able to meet these pple demand. It could be family, it could be friends or etc. Of course, the main parties are parents. How will they think of you if u make the wedding a simple affair? How will relatives think? These are many questions unanswered.

No doubt, others still get married. However, I believe parents would have somehow or rather fork out some cash to help the couple tie over. What about the amount you need for buying a new house? It is not as simple as many think. If I am the only son, well, the answer is simple. hahah.. Too bad, I still have siblings and a baby nephew to take care of. All these voice down to one thing. $$$$$ Cold hard cash.

Well, another issue to dealt with is the change of human's perception. Things are changing, pple are also changing, mindset are also different. Relationship is about building trust and sharing life with each other. However, it is different now. It is fun and in control. Who can control the other party, who can have more fun wins. Arent you scare?

You can be a simple and righteous person today. Do you dare to say you will be the same 10 years later? Are we all in disguise or just pretending all these while? I have been asking the same questions many times. hahhaa.. No solid answer yet. I have a friend who has a kind hearted gf who do charitable work. I am surprised to learn that she is equally shallow and materialistic. Has she been pretending or she has been this way all the while but undiscovered? hahahha... I think pple need time to accept these changes.

After serious issues, it is time for a short break. hahahha... Yeah, its holiday! LOL!! I hope i shall have some good rest before embarking on another round of work.